tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4034415101465978073.post2935311067987135190..comments2024-01-02T20:26:12.505-08:00Comments on life, the universe, and everything: Marriages are made in heavenJiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03173685812500430749noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4034415101465978073.post-66446992388586041082019-09-09T22:15:13.014-07:002019-09-09T22:15:13.014-07:00Agree with every word Agree with every word starryskyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07933836576924956794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4034415101465978073.post-84562268130480809302010-08-26T00:40:15.470-07:002010-08-26T00:40:15.470-07:00hmm Nice Article..hmm Nice Article..baktavarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05218685885338410899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4034415101465978073.post-81454392572416209042010-03-26T23:36:24.445-07:002010-03-26T23:36:24.445-07:00Hindu Marriage earlier was considered as a sacrame...Hindu Marriage earlier was considered as a sacrament under the old Hindu Law as there was no concept of separation under the Hindu Shastras other than that by way of death.Now,under the new law it has been termed as a social contract due to prevalent changes in the society.Law has now permitted divorce in Hindu marriages also.Thanks to the legislators who have framed this law to bail people out of the hazards of arranged marriage.Strangely the statistics show that there is more divorces in romantic marriages than in arranged marriages,at least sociological studies reveal so.The problem is not with the form of marriages but with the substance/quality of marriages.People are oblivious about actual love and they cannot distinguish between the thin line between infatuation,liking or love.Whats needed is perhaps the proper understanding between the prospective couples about their ideas,opinions,concepts,intellects, philosophies and mental make up.Its impossible that people can have exactly the equal level of IQ but its needed upto certain extent and proportion.Mistakes the parents make is to judge a prospective bride/groom by their own standards and requirements.They don't bother to understand about the emotional,intellectual and other requirements of their offsprings.This leeds to disastrous marriages.Our social pressure also influences the decision about the time to get married.In most cases people are not ready for such relationship.The person getting married should have the exclusive right to decide about their partners and if they find a good match for themselves parents should not interfere.Actually,parents do not even understand their own children hence they are unaware about their choice.Unless one has feelings for another love cannot happen only because of marriage and there shouldn't be any marriage without love.No one will adjust,understand,sacrifice for others without loving and caring for them. What more can I say I was interrupted in my writing session by my friend who is suffering from the ill effect of unhappy love marriage.Have to go to solve his problem.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02575668965340650189noreply@blogger.com